Each year, College Football fans are terrorized through the mail….. they get wedding invites for College Football Saturday.

Fall weddings are a national emergency, a pandemic…. and we have the vaccine: Say no to weddings on College Football Saturdays.

The New York Times has reported that 2022 is set to have the MOST weddings since 1984 with an estimated 2.5M weddings set to take place this year. Also TheKnot.com reports that the Fall is the most popular time of the year to get married with October 22, 2022 being the hottest date to get married.

Let’s review some of the games for October 22, 2022:

  • Louisville vs. Pitt
  • Alabama vs. Miss St
  • Ole Miss vs. LSU
  • A&M vs. South Carolina
  • UCLA vs. Oregon
  • Texas vs. Oklahoma State
  • WVU vs. Texas Texas
  • Iowa vs. Ohio State
  • Purdue vs. Wisconsin

I’d say we already have plans. Most of us already have tickets. The NFL gets to avoid this probably with its games being on Thursday, Sunday and Monday and as such this is a problem reserved on for the collegiate football fans.

Cuffin’ Szn

As we near the end of the summer and the official start of the college football season a lot of you guys & gals are going to state your future intentions to one another.  You or someone you know, is going to get engaged.  During this betrothal planning, compromises are made.  This is meant to be a guide to help you hold firm on a very important aspect of wedding planning:  “Protect the Football: Don’t Get Married on a College Football Saturday”.

If college football didn’t exist. Getting Married in the Fall makes complete sense. Your IG is going to amazing. The colors are tremendous, the weather is mild, and generally it is enough time to plan from an engagement that happens during ‘engagement season’ (aka end of summer through Christmas, NYE, & Valentine’s Day).   Nuptials in autumn are perfectly fine.  Vows on a College Football Saturday are Absolutely Not! College Football has already claimed our Saturdays in the Fall.  This article will serve for you to preserve football solidarity for your friends, family….and yourself.

Cursed With A Fall Saturday Wedding Invitation?

This stance has been the subject of many conversations and collegiate pigskin fans need to unite to ‘Protect the Football”.  Folks often focus on the traditions, customs, & etiquette of a wedding, while casually ignoring the etiquette, customs, and traditions of College Football.

Getting a wedding invitation on a College Football Saturday is the worst piece of mail a College Football Fan can receive.  Letters from the IRS, bill collectors, even jury duty is more welcomed in the postbox than your wedding invitation on a ripe October Saturday.

Still there are many couples who either ignore or simply aren’t aware of the anguish they are inflicting on their invited guests.  As a bride or groom, it’s your job to “Protect the Football”. The uninitiated will respond to objections to a wedding on College Football Saturday with: “What’s the Big Deal?” OR “It’s Just One Saturday” OR “It’s Just One Game” OR “I Don’t Care About Football” OR the ever popular, “Whoever is meant to be there, will be there”.

The problem is that College Football on Saturday IS a big deal, weddings in the fall will not stop at “Just One Game/Saturday”, we care about football, and my guess is that if you individuals received an invitation to your wedding you care about them as well.

Potentially every date has issues, but hear me out on why getting married on a College Football Saturday is a bad idea and how you can help “Protect the Football”:

#1 Everyone Already Has Plans

Most Americans LOVE college football.  In 2019 47,537,702 people ATTENDED Division 1 college games and an average College Football TV audience on a given Saturday can range from 65-70 Million people EACH WEEK!  A recent study by ESPN found that 162.6 MILLION Americans self-identify as college football fans, 44.7 million of those being classified as ‘avid’. It’s estimated that 225 Million Americans watch at least one college football game on TV each year.

Here in the state of Kentucky a given Saturday may have 61,000 people at Cardinal Stadium, 61,000 fans at Kroger Field in Lexington, and 22,113 people at WKU’s Houchens Industries L.T. Smith Stadium.  That’s potentially 144,113 people here in Kentucky that already have plans.  Not to mention nearby Indiana or Cincinnati, the smaller schools in the area OR the transplants from other areas that routinely make the pilgrimage to follow their favorite college football team or plan to watch their favorite team play on television.

Why is it so important?  The season closes in December, bowl games wrap in early January and we WAIT….and WAIT……and WAIT for Week 0 of college football season.  All of those other weekends when reasonable people are having weddings the college football public waits for Labor Day weekend and the start of the college football season.  Once the season is here, fans get to see their team play 12 regular season games.  And of those few games, even fewer are at home.

Think about it.  REAL college football fans have season tickets and have had them for several years. In the case of my family we have 8 tickets in The Crunch Zone (naturally) and have had season tickets since before I can really remember.  Do the math: 8 tickets, $52 per ticket x 7 games = $2912.  Plus the parking passes and the tailgate gear the amount of money is invested each year over the course of 20-30 years (or more), potentially a life-long 6-figure investment. If you schedule a wedding over top of College Football Saturdays and it costs me a home game, I’ll be at the stadium and sending you flatware via Amazon.  We spent $3000 on this and there were 3 other seasons and 36 other weekends to consider.

Remove the money invested from the equation, College Football fans also have a lot of time invested: REAL college football fans can watch up to 17 hours of live football each week (more if they withhold suspense and watch on a DVR).  Over the course of 16 weeks + championship + bowl season, that can range up to 400 hours of football each season. Scheduling your Wedding on a College Football Saturday puts a season ticket holder in the dilemma of missing your wedding or missing out on a dividend of a major investment.

I use the following reasoning:  I’ve been a fan of the Louisville Cardinals for 40 years…..You met your fiancee` last summer, I’m the one showing REAL commitment.

#2: Guests Who Attend Will Be Distracted

Having your wedding on a College Football Saturday means distracted guests.  The time and effort you spent on floral arrangements and decorations will go down the drain as guests will be scoping out the nearest TV instead of appreciating the beauty of your work.  That faint sound you hear during quiet moments in the ceremony?  That’s a dedicated individual listening to their AirPods or watching the game on YouTubeTV on their phone.  Your grandfather isn’t praying for an extended period of time, he’s checking his cellphone to find out the score.

Groomsmen will come up with hand signals to people in the congregation.  Unexplained gasps will be heard.  Babies will be pinched for an excuse to go out into the hallway.  It’s chaos.

Your guests will take the long way to the reception and once there your guests will harass and bribe the bartender to put the game on the TV.  While the bride is throwing the bouquet a good number of people will be huddled around someone’s phone clinging to 6% battery for a crucial 3rd down.

#3: The People You Hire Are College Football Fans

When a couple puts together their wedding, inevitably they will hire college football fans. Your priest/pastor isn’t going to be a happy camper if he is doing your wedding and the Cards are down 17-10 at halftime.  While you are reciting your vows,  your officiant will be thinking: “What am I doing here? And why didn’t Satterfield punt on 4th down?”

The likelihood of potential missed details your caterers, waitstaff, bartenders, photographers/videographers, limo driver, DJ, and administrators is staggering.  Odds are good that at least 50% of these will identify as avid college football fans, and while their income & reputation is dependent on doing a good job, they also know that you probably won’t find anyone else willing to work on a College Football Saturday.  So if your photographer happens to miss the garter coming off the bride’s leg while checking the score, that just comes with the territory.

#4:  It is Important to Get Things Started on the Right Foot

And that means putting your foot down.

If you are a College Football Fan and you find yourself compromising for a wedding on an Autumn Saturday, what’s next?  Gardening during games?  Laundry during Monday Night Football?

This is supposed to be a JOINT decision. Not a declaration handed down by one party at the expense of the wishes of another.

This compromise has already started things on the wrong foot.  Have a backbone, it is your wedding too and you know you’ll want to be watching all of the action inside the stadium or at the bar with us rather than talking to your bride/or groom’s aunt from out of town you’ve never met.

Bottom line, if you allow this compromise there is no telling where it will end.  As a college football fan, if you are OK with the slow deterioration of your relationship with Pigskin, then by all means, make the compromise.  But I’m guessing that is not the case.  It’s important for your spouse to understand the importance of college football now.  There is no sense in blurring the lines now for confusion later.  Draw the line.  You like College Football, and your fiancé loves you for you.  If the idea is to change you, or affix you to the ball & chain let’s re-think the whole idea.  Eventually everyone stands up for themselves.

#5: Other Dates Are Available

A wedding on Christmas morning doesn’t make sense.  No one in this state would schedule a wedding on the 1st Saturday in May, or any Thursday-Sunday from Mid-March to the first weekend in April.  That’s madness.  College Football schedules are released early January-early February allowing for plenty of advance notice to plan your wedding.  Plus, we already know the general guideline that the College Football season goes from Labor Day until the first weekend in December and games are played on Saturday.

There are 104 Friday’s & Saturday’s in a given year. 16 of which are College Football Saturdays.  There are plenty of dates to choose from.   The schedule is released in plenty of time to make arrangements and the College Football season is the perfect time to elope & throw a great tailgate party.

#6 Never Combine Two Parties Into One

This is a general life principle. Never throw one party when you can throw two. The college football weekend is a party, your wedding should be one too. There are plenty of weekends on the calendar without a natural party planned.

Pro Tip: The 1st Saturday in May and the 1st Weekend in April is out too.

#7: Additional Guidelines

-Understand how College Football works.  While planning understand the College Football Playoff, the bowl season and the conference championship schedule.  The worst thing you can do is plan your wedding during championship week only to have an even more distracted audience. Take time to consider your guests.

-Don’t make your wedding a football themed wedding and think that will be OK.  Don’t think that setting up TVs is OK either……just don’t have your wedding on a College Football Saturday.  Also don’t plan your wedding during a Road Game and think that is acceptable. We travel.

#8: Exceptions

-FCS games (I am categorically against FBS schools playing FCS schools.) You may feel otherwise,  but that’s a personal preference. Feel free to chose to plan your wedding on FCS weekend.

-If it is either the bride or groom’s 5th or more wedding, by all means attend. The action may be better than anything on the field.

-IF a couple scheduled nuptials on a Friday evening and a game that was originally scheduled for Saturday was moved to Friday you have my sympathies and are omitted from any undue criticism….you tried. But I still may elect to miss your wedding.

-An important Relative won’t survive the Winter. But if that is the case do you think they would rather miss the game or go to your wedding?  There is always Friday.

-If you are the Most Outstanding Player of the NCAA Tournament wherein your team won the National Championship and YOU hit four 3s to lead a furious comeback to secure that win…. then you can have your wedding whenever you want.

-Pregnancy? It’s not a good idea to get married while pregnant. Eventually your kids will do the math, your parents will be disappointed anyway, it is better to have that baby & give yourself a goal for a Spring/Summer wedding, or maybe when your child is able to walk and be your ring bearer/flower girl.  Everybody wins. No one is going to say anything when the bride still wears white…..it’s 2022 after all. Plus when you tell them the original date was on a College Football Saturday and you opted for a Spring wedding the entire congregation will be pleased as punch to encourage the occasion as is traditionally intended.

#9: If You Insist on Getting Married on a College Football Saturday

-Acceptable if the wedding is within the 1.5 mile parking radius and has a floating start time based on kickoff time. There are two great examples of people who successfully pulled off nuptials in this way during the 2013 season.  Card fans Vonnie Allen & Jeff Miller made the pact while tailgating before Louisville vs. Florida International  and there was even an on campus tying of the knot in Knoxville:


#10 Advice to those that choose to attend.

If your your mother threatens to kick you out of the family if you don’t show your face at a particular wedding, you still have options.  It won’t be the same as being inside the stadium with the pageantry of college football, but the following is better than getting shutout altogether:

Have a plan. Every wedding is different.  But you need to get creative with how you will be able to get information and/or watch or listen live.

Charge your cell phone.  Your phone is the key to video, audio, score information and news. You can’t access any of this if your phone is dead by halftime.  But your cell phone can also be your link to escape.  Either through communication to someone who has quick access to a television OR it could be used as an excuse to step out into the hallway….. and out of the reception.

Wireless headphones (preferably ones that look like hearing aids).  If you can’t watch the next best thing is to listen to the game broadcast.  There are now Bluetooth devices that are extremely small ear pieces that appear to look like hearing aids.  NOTE: Maintain your composure during periods of excitement or displeasure while gaining information in this format.  

Identify other tortured parties who share your need for College Football info.  Develop and discuss various hand gestures and indicators that will help you and others communicate under the radar during the ceremony.  Be sure to avoid large motions and limit cough and sneeze sequences to 3 occurrences.  Also if you are a groomsman, winking sequences should be avoided……trust me.

-Be prepared to issue some sort of bribe to the bartender for control of the television.

-It’s controversial but weddings on College Football Saturdays are acceptable occasions to ‘re-gift’ items from your basement.  You have already given up something that you really wanted…..you might as well make room in your basement. A spring wedding is a gift and shall be rewarded justly for proper planning & courtesy.

In Summation

Getting married on a College Football Saturday is not recommended and steps should be taken to avoid the conflict at all costs.  It is our hope here at TheCrunchZone.com that the data and arguments provided here will allow wedding planners to arm themselves with an adequate ammunition to “Protect the Football”.  If you have anything to add, send us a note!  We are always open to suggestions.  In the meantime if your friend or relative does decide to get married on a College Football Saturday, don’t forget to “Raise A Glass” for them at your tailgate before heading into the stadium.

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